Five Social Media Terms that Teens are Using That Parents Should Know

Back by popular demand, we are here to share with you 5-terms that teens communicate with, which you have probably never heard of!

Below are just five trendy terms your children may be using in conversation with friends and on social media. It may be helpful to understand the meaning and connotations behind these terms in order to gain a better understanding of the dynamics of digital socialization. Talking about this with your tweens and teens can enhance their understanding of the nuance of new digital terms and keep you in the loop. Let’s take a dive in:

G.O.A.T                    
Sus                 
Glow-Up                   
Salty              
Thirsty        

Why do Teenagers use Slang words? For a variety of reasons that might include:

Expressing individuality
Slang words are often used by teens to express their individuality and set themselves apart from their peers.

Group identity
Teenagers often use slang words to identify with a specific group or subculture.

Inclusivity
Slang words are often used to create a sense of inclusivity and belonging among a group of teens.

Convenience
Slang words are often shorter and easier to say than formal words, making them more convenient for teens to use in conversation.

Rebellion
Teens may use slang words as a form of rebellion against societal norms and expectations.

Coolness
Many teens use slang words because they believe it makes them appear cooler or trendy. Let’s take a look at these few:

GOAT
Greatest of all Time. The Tom Brady’s, and Michael Jordan’s of the world. Some may put Lebron into that category but at TMH we stay true to #23. 
Example: Those shoes are G.o.a.t.

Sus
It means suspect or suspicious. It can be used in a hurtful way to question one’s sexuality or. Kids may refer to a peer as “sus” who they think may be gay or acting in opposition with traditional gender norms. 
Example: "It's a little sus that he seems to know exactly how to play this game"

Glow Up
A major and impressive transformation in appearance, talent, power, etc. While this may seem like a compliment it could also serve as a backhanded insult. “Wow, look at her. What a glow-up” sends the message that she was not good enough before and could be perceived as insulting. 
Example: “She has really had a glow up since the last time I saw her!” 

Salty
Being salty is when you are upset over something little. At The Meeting House we like to distinguish between “a big problem” and a “little problem”. A big problem is a situation where you may feel unsafe or hurt like a broken arm, a little problem being last in line to go to lunch. 
Example: “He was so salty after he died in smash bros.”

 Thirsty
Desperate for attention, usually sexual attention. Seeking unwanted attention in overt sexual ways. 
Example: “Damn did you see what he’s wearing. He’s looking really thirsty.”